Our lives belong to us and we’re responsible for every decision we make. We can make excellent choices as we try hard to do our best moving forward, but there may be times when we’re unhappy with where we are or what we’re doing. Where we are is often the result of decisions we’ve made and if we’re not comfortable we have the power to change things. We can always stay in place for as long as we like, and it’s easy to keep doing the same things even if we’re unhappy. We are the ones making the choices that affect our lives, and in the end, we all end up with the lives we wanted the most. If we hate our job but are unwilling to find another, our choice is to stay and endure. If we’re in a difficult relationship but prefer it to being single and we stay, we decide our happiness must take a back seat. We can complain about our lot in life but complaints will never change anything. If we want real happiness and the chance to create the lives we want the most, we must be willing to do what is needed to make it happen. What we get in the end is reflected by the decisions we make. We never need to stay in a situation that isn’t working and even if it’s hard to break away, we have everything we need to do just that. Our lives are ours to design. Whether we have happiness and satisfaction, or frustration and disappointment, is up to us. There are often many factors involved when we want to change, and it’s not always easy to step away from where we are to get to where we want to be. But we are strong and capable, and have everything we need to succeed at anything we desire. We can have happy, fulfilling lives if we make the choices necessary to create them.
Change is constant and nothing ever stays the same indefinitely. Learning to roll along with the punches as they come helps us manage any situation we’re in. But if the road we’ve been traveling turns into something we didn’t expect or ends up taking us somewhere we never wanted to go, we can step off it and turn in a new direction. It takes courage to change lanes and start again but we are brave enough to face whatever is needed to create the lives we want. We never have to stand still if we want to move. We’re in control of our lives and can do what is needed to make them happy.
One thing always leads to another and every decision takes us somewhere. It’s up to us to make sure the choices we’re making are creating the life we want. If we don’t control our lives, someone else will. Nobody knows what we want or need better than we do. We must be the ones driving the train if we want to get to the destinations we desire. We can go anywhere and do anything, and every option is possible.
Today if you’ve been coasting through a situation you don’t want, remember your life is yours to design. You can do anything and go anywhere. Take control of your decisions and make choices that will take you exactly where you want to go. You are incredible and deserve complete happiness. Choose the roads that will take you to it and step forward. Every success is waiting for you.
arrowsup 
Leave a Reply