In difficult and complicated situations when we’re making decisions about what we want or need to do, we want to make the best choice going forward. If we need to confront someone about something they did or apologize for something we’ve done it might be difficult to decide how to proceed. We can objectively review all the facts to clarify exactly what we want to say and how we want to address our concerns. Once we determine what the best course of action is we can proceed with confidence and do what is needed to amend the situation. But sometimes after we’ve decided what needs to be done we might second guess our decision. What if things don’t go the way we want them too, what if our interaction goes awry and things get worse, what if the other person refuses to see us, the list of possibilities is endless. Second guessing may hold us back from doing what we need to move forward and hold us in place somewhere we don’t want to be. If we need to do something to fix a situation and default to doing nothing because we are afraid or unsure about what might happen, the situation will remain unresolved. We will carry it with us going forward. The only way around any problem is to solve it. There is no way to know how anything will work out when we’re trying to move forward, but one thing is certain, if we do nothing everything will remain the same. Addressing our problems head on and facing them instead of looking away will help us continue forward toward our goals and bring us confidence. We don’t have to hold onto any issue longer than we want to. All the answers are there for us. Taking control of the issue and facing it will help us find our way forward and bring us happiness and satisfaction.
There are endless “what ifs” if we think about them. Lots of things can always go wrong but lots of things can also go right. If we try to address a problem or situation with someone else and they don’t want to settle the issue, it then belongs to them. Once we’ve done all we can to resolve the problem we don’t have to carry it forward. We can’t control what anyone else does and if they will not agree to work things out, we can let it go and hope things will improve over time.
In our lives we will have the opportunity to solve many difficult situations. Some answers will come easily and others will take time and serious thought. There is no problem without a solution. We can be confident in our ability to understand any situation clearly and find the answers we need. Nothing is impossible and we are wise and capable. Our happiness and comfort are our responsibility, and when things go wrong we can take control of our decisions and choose the best path forward.
Today if you need to solve a difficult problem and have been second guessing the way forward, choose the best solution and move ahead. You know what needs to be done and you are wise enough to find the answers you need. Be confident and brave. You have everything you need to succeed. There isn’t anything too difficult for you to resolve. Make your decisions and move forward. Success is there for you.
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