Control is an illusion for anything outside ourselves. We can’t control what other people do, how things happen or when something will occur. There are a lot of variables in each moment and we have to be ready for the changes that will inevitably happen. Although we don’t have any control over anything around us, we have complete control over ourselves. We’re in charge or our behavior and the choices we make with each passing moment. To say “I couldn’t help it” after making a poor choice is just an excuse. Whether we admit it or not, we are responsible for every step we take, every action we display, and everything we say and do. Nobody is perfect and when there is conflict or a lot going on there may be times when we do things we regret. It’s perfectly normal to make mistakes but we must accept our ownership of them. It’s inappropriate and dishonest to try to push a bad decision off onto others or blame the situation. We always know what we’re doing. When we’re upset and confused, there is no off-site mission control that will take over for us. We’re in charge and must forge ahead no matter the circumstances. Taking the time to see everything clearly before we jump into a quick decision will help us. Every decision we make will take us somewhere. We can remember the destination we are seeking and make the choices that will take us closer to it. We have all the wisdom and intelligence we need to lead strong, successful lives. We can be in control and move forward toward the goals we value most.
If we’re unsure about what we’re doing or don’t really know where we want to go, when it’s time to make a choice we may lean on others or follow someone else. It’s easy to ride in the backseat. If we aren’t driving we don’t have to know where we’re going, we don’t have to find the way forward, and we can simply relax and enjoy the ride. But if we stay in the backseat we will only go places others have chosen. Our lives cannot truly belong to us if we don’t direct our plans. We have enough courage to step up front and decide where we want to go. Every destination is possible and we can find our way step by step until we reach success.
It takes courage to live the lives we want the most. We must be willing to try new things and face the possibility of failure. We know where we are now, it’s comfortable in routine, and we know what to expect, but staying in the same place will never take us where we want to go. Every option is available if we are willing to do what is needed to achieve it. We have all the courage and strength we need to make our dreams come true. We don’t need to rely on others to take us where we want to go. We can drive our own train and reach any destination we desire.
Today if you’ve been unsure about the way ahead and are tempted to follow others instead of being in control, remember how strong and effective you are. You know what you want. Be courageous and step forward. There isn’t anything you can’t do. You are more powerful than you realize. Every dream can come true. Take control and push ahead. Success is waiting for you and you will reach it.
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