We are in control of our lives and everything we do, where we go, and what we want to accomplish. However, we don’t have any control over what others choose or how they impact us. We live in a world with millions of other people all making decisions. Sometimes their decisions can get in our way and stop us from moving forward. When that happens we can look at our options and find another road. If we’re deeply enmeshed in a situation and intensely desire a chosen outcome, when we’re stopped in our tracks, instead of changing direction we may wait, hoping things will happen on their own. Maybe we have a job where we’ve been promised advancement but over time those promises haven’t materialized. Or we’ve fallen in love with someone who says if we’re patient and wait they’ll come around and spend their lives with us, but nothing changes. Reality isn’t always what we want it to be and if it’s hard to accept we might choose a fairytale instead. We may cling to a situation hoping it will change even if there is no indication that will ever happen. Hoping for a fairytale will never bring us lasting happiness. Fairytales are not real. They do not exist in the real world. Holding onto something that will never happen holds us in place and prevents us from moving forward. We deserve complete happiness. We deserve the lives we want the most. Spending our time wishing for something that will never be will only bring us sorrow. We can look at everything openly and honestly, and choose the roads ahead that will take us where we want to go and bring us complete happiness. Our lives belong to us and there is nothing strong enough to keep us from success.
It’s good to be patient and wait when we need to. Patience is an excellent quality and we can wait as long as we like, but we need not be patient indefinitely. If nothing changes we can evaluate how long we are willing to continue before moving forward toward a new goal. Our lives are precious and we are always in control of our decisions. We can choose happiness and continue forward at any time.
It’s possible to follow a dream we desire indefinitely. We may convince ourselves if we just try a little harder or wait a little longer everything will work out. Sometimes a little more patience or effort will push things forward. If they don’t, we can look at the situation objectively, let go of any fairytales we’ve been holding onto, and decide how to move forward. Fairytales are wonderful stories of make believe that have no bearing on the real world. We can see our lives clearly and openly, and accept what is real. True happiness is always available to us. We can face everything truthfully and confidently, and have the lives we want the most.
Today if you’ve been hoping and waiting for something to happen but nothing has changed, think about what you want the most. There are unlimited possibilities available for you to find complete happiness. See everything clearly and understand what is real. Move forward and you’ll make your dreams come true. Nothing is out of reach. Take control and get what you want.
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