Every decision we make determines where we’ll go and what we’ll do. There will always be outside influences and there may be times we feel pressure to do things a certain way, but ultimately our lives belong to us and we can live them any way we like. Our happiness is our responsibility. If we aren’t happy where we are, it’s our responsibility to do what is needed to change the situation. We can complain about our lives, bemoan our current situation, and blame anything and everything for our dissatisfaction, but the truth is we are the ones driving the train. If we’re in a situation we don’t want, we can change it. If we’re in a relationship that isn’t working, we can leave it. Making excuses for why we remain unhappy will never bring us lasting comfort or improve our position. We can sit and imagine how our lives could be or we can do what is needed to change things. Change can be intimidating and isn’t always easy. It takes focus and determination but we certainly have everything we need to be successful. We are important and our personal desires are important. We deserve complete and fulfilling happiness. It’s available to us if we are willing to do what is needed to find it. We know ourselves and we know what we really want and where we want to go. We can decide to do what is needed to create the lives we want and find happiness. We don’t have to wait for things to improve. We can move forward today and reach any destination we desire.
Some people believe in fate. They may think it doesn’t matter what they do, they are predestined to have a certain kind of life and experience. Using that as an excuse to cover unhappiness is illogical. We have the right to choose anything and everything we do. We can go anywhere and do anything. There is nothing strong enough to hold us in place once we decide we want to move. All our dreams are possible and we need not stay anywhere we don’t want. Nothing is out of reach and we can achieve any goal and reach any objective we desire. We are in control and can create the lives we want the most.
Fear of the unknown may be a factor when we want to do something new. Nobody knows what tomorrow will bring and when we’re pushing forward on a new path there is no way to anticipate all the complications that may come. The first road we try may not work out and we may need to change direction and try again. We get unlimited chances to find our way and no matter what we face we have everything we need to continue forward. Life is a great blessing. All options are available. Happiness is there for us and we can reach further to find it.
Today if you feel unhappy and unfulfilled in your life, decide where you want to go and chart a new course going forward. Let go of the things that are holding you back and break free of anything keeping you from your dreams. You deserve everything you desire. Choose your destination and start moving toward it. Everything is there for you. Complete happiness is possible and it will be yours.
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