We all have particular behavior idiosyncrasies that make us unique and special. We have some traits that bring us happiness and help us manage our daily lives and we are grateful for them. We may also have some behaviors that don’t work so well and hang us up from time to time. We all learn behavior patterns as we grow and when we’re accustomed to doing things a certain way we may continue even if they bring us discomfort. Whether or not we continue to repeat them is up to us. We can have any kind of life we want. If we want a life filled with drama and tension, it’s not difficult to create. But if we want lives filled with peace and harmony we may need to look at our behaviors clearly and objectively and change some patterns in order to achieve it. We all know what’s best for us and when we’re doing things that will bring problems and complications to our lives. In every decision we can do our best to create situations that bring order and calm instead of conflict and tension. We can’t control what others do but we can determine to carefully consider all the options before us and choose the options that bring resolution and comfort. Every day is a blessing. Learning to care for ourselves and make the most positive choices will help us enjoy our time and bring us peace and added joy.
Some decisions fill our lives with conflict. They may include some kind of deception or manipulation that intensifies the problem. If we like tension or feel energized when there are problems to solve it’s not difficult to create a life filled with trouble. If we want constant struggle we can create scenarios that make it happen. We may manufacture situations to prove how strong we are or how affective we can solve difficult situations. It takes a lot of energy to live in continual conflict. There is enough natural complication in our lives already and we don’t have to prove anything to anyone. We can revise decisions that may bring added conflict and make choices that resolve it by choosing peace over contention.
Learning to live peacefully opens doors to new opportunities. Everyone enjoys being around those who have a positive outlook and seek the best options in their decisions. There is no way to completely avoid conflict but when it comes we can decide to do things that will minimize the problem and defuse the intensity. We are in complete control of our decisions and can make any choice we desire. Since we can never choose the outcome of any choice we make it’s in our best interest to weigh our options carefully and make the decisions that have the greatest chance of bringing the results we desire. There isn’t anything we can’t do and do well. Learning to live peacefully and happily will bring us great reward and satisfaction. Our lives are precious and we can fill them with joy.
Today if you’ve been struggling with conflict and pushing against resolution, look at the issue clearly and decide the best way forward. You have everything you need to be happy and successful. Make decisions today that will bring you joy in the future. You are precious and priceless. Be happy and choose wisely.
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