Lots of things can happen as we go through life. There may be unexpected surprises that suddenly change everything, emergency situations that require us to think fast, and we may lose our breath trying to figure out what’s happened. Everything can change in an instant and when it does we may feel confused and shaken. Sometimes we have to act quickly and our first instinct is exactly what we need to do. But there may be times when we are pressed by others to hurry and do something that feels wrong and we aren’t sure. If the situation isn’t life threatening we can take a moment to step back and catch our breath and assess what’s happening. We can review all the possible options before we leap. The answer we find may be what we’ve been told, but sometimes we discover the best road forward is in the opposite direction. Taking the time to stop and see the situation clearly before running ahead will help us prevent further complications and make mistakes that may take us far from the answers we need.
Some people jump to action the moment a sudden change arises. They run forward eager to solve the situation and get through it as quickly as possible. In the rush they miss important cues and subtle suggestions that will help. We can’t see everything clearly when we’re running past it. If we want the best answer we have to see the whole picture and rushing through any situation will often prevent us from being able to see everything. If we jump the moment something happens and react instead of respond carefully we may find ourselves in a more complicated situation. Doing the first thing that comes to mind is sometimes the best answer but often it’s just the first answer. Every problem has a solution and if we stop before we jump and think about everything that’s happening we will find options. Then we can choose the option that works best overall instead of the one that works fast. Getting the problem solved fast isn’t always the best plan. Getting it solved well is the objective.
When others are involved in a sudden issue there may be conflicting ideas about what needs to happen. If the situation is intense extreme ideas may be thrown out and a lot of information may be presented in a short amount of time. The confluence of all the chatter may create more confusion. The loudest voice is sometimes the voice chosen simply because it can be heard above the fray and may not be the best solution. Even in complicated times of duress we can take control and find a moment to evaluate before we proceed. We have everything we need to find the best way forward. We can manage whatever comes to us and we can find the answers to any situation. There is generally enough time to evaluate, and we can carefully and calmly find our way through any problem before us.
Today if you’re suddenly in a situation where you have to find an important answer and there is pressure to get there quickly, evaluate the whole picture first. You have everything you need to succeed. Don’t rush, be wise and listen carefully. All the answers are there and you will find the best way forward.
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